People are rivers, always ready to move from one state of being into another. It is not fair, to treat people as if they are finished beings. Everyone is always becoming and unbecoming. -Kathleen Winter
All our lives...
we are in the process of becoming
In the unbecoming we start to shift.
We push thru the shit that we have unknowingly become.
We slowly peel back the layers-
And we melt thru the fears...we unbecome.
Letting go of the mistakes. We shift thru the energy and choose to heal.
We begin to understand that life isn't about pleasing others in spite of ourselves.
Embracing our pain and trauma,
we realize that our power is fucking cumulative.
And all we have to do is shed our skin.
Colleen came to me with an alligator hide that she had hunt herself.
She had always wanted to do it so she put her name in the lottery and WENT!
Can you say badass???? Thank you Colleen for being such an inspiration to live life fully! #liveyourlife
Women come to me because they inherently know that something inside of themselves is askew. We aren't at peace. We are at war with ourselves.
Sometimes it is because we get "lost" in our lives.
By that I don't mean that we don't know what we are doing,
I mean that we lose ourselves in the midst of our lives.
We forget that our needs matter, and they get thrown to the wayside.
We become what we are told we should be.
We tread water in the deep end of our guilt because we can't achieve that.
We harden our hearts with all the reasons we aren't good enough,
then convince our minds that it is true.
We don't have to. It's a choice. We choose to tread water, or we choose to swim.
XO- Jana V
Thank you Christie for trusting me and sharing your vulnerability with me.
You really gave 1000% and brought the fire to your session!
"I don’t really want to become normal, average, standard. I want merely to gain in strength, in the courage to live out my life more fully, enjoy more, experience more. I want to develop even more original and more unconventional traits" Anais Nin
Mindy came to me with an open heart this time. She has done a session before but this time was different. She was confident. She was bold. And she knew more about who she was.
These sessions are tipping points.
We learn to connect to something that is
so beautiful and raw inside of ourselves
that we have always minimized.
We are taught that taming our fire is our only choice.
We are taught that if we walk fully in our magic...we are "too much".
We are taught that in order to "feel good"
we have to do a certain amount of self sacrificing before we earn it.
Again.. a lie.
You were always worth it. You were always magic.
You were always fire.
You just have to choose it.
XO- Jana V